Embracing Radical Downtime for Happy, Creative Kids
- Allison Lloyd
- Aug 9, 2023
- 2 min read
Hey there, Mammas and Dads!

I wanted to chat about something that might sound a bit counterintuitive in our fast-paced world – radical downtime for our kids. You know, those moments when they're not following a schedule, not tied to screens, and not rushing from one activity to another. That is the time we are talking about!
In our quest to give our kids the best, we often load up their schedules with classes, sports, and whatnot. But guess what? Just like us, kids need downtime too. It's not just about lounging around (though that's awesome too), it's about giving their little minds and bodies the chance to recharge and explore at their own pace.
Here's why radical downtime is worth embracing:
Creativity Central: Ever noticed how some of the coolest ideas pop up when you're least expecting them? The same goes for our kiddos. When they have downtime, their imagination goes into overdrive. Blankets become forts, sticks turn into magic wands, and the living room transforms into their own little universe. It's magical!
Stress Buster: Yes, kids can get stressed too! School, friends, and even extracurriculars can sometimes overwhelm them. Radical downtime lets them unwind, process their feelings, and simply be kids without any pressures. It's like hitting the reset button on their stress levels. For kids it will seem stressful to be without their tech and “bored” but give it time.
Boredom Breeds Brilliance: Remember when we used to say, "I'm bored!" and our parents would reply, "Good, now go play outside." Well, they were onto something. Boredom actually sparks creativity and problem-solving skills. When kids have nothing planned, they dig deep into their own resources to come up with fun ideas. It is when imagination grows and creativity blossoms.
Independence Boost: When kids have the freedom to choose how they spend their downtime, it fosters independence. They learn to manage their time, make decisions, and figure things out on their own. These are life skills that come in handy way beyond childhood.
Connection: Radical downtime can also mean time to connect. Unplugged, distraction-free moments are perfect for bonding as a family, with friends or just siblings. Whether it's a board game, baking cookies, or simply chatting, these moments create lasting memories. A short time of focused connection is far more valuable than distracted time together.
So, how do we embrace radical downtime? Simple! Set aside chunks of time where there's no set plan. Put away the gadgets, let them be bored, and watch the magic unfold. It might be messy, it might be quiet, but it's all part of their journey to becoming well-rounded, creative, and confident individuals.
Let's give our kids the gift of time – time to dream, time to explore, and time to just be. It's in those moments of radical downtime that some of the most beautiful childhood memories are created.
Cheers to downtime that's anything but down! 🌈🧘♀️🌳






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